Her husband Ryan — who she met at 26 — took a little longer to get on board.After some health challenges in her 30s, the couple started trying for a baby, and at 45, Heather was finally pregnant.But on her first visit to the doctor, she was told the pregnancy wouldn't be viable."[The doctor] said, 'I will expect you to miscarry this baby in the next week or two.' And I did," she said.Heather was heartbroken So he should be able to last a fair few years and hopefully old enough for Will to have memories of him in person rather than just looking at photos and videos," Heather said."Even knowing that Ryan was going to get sick, even knowing that I would be probably raising him on my own, I would do it again in a heartbeat."The small moments — the family moments together — just are the best moments of my life."How have you found becoming a mum later in life? We'd love to hear from you.Zoe was 44 and her husband was 51 when they had their daughter.She sometimes reads judgemental things online about older mums, such as: "You're not going to be around for your child" or "you're going to be the oldest mum in school"."So what?" says Zoe