After an incident where he said he was badly burned, he found his way to his forever home.Selina was 29 years-old when she made the decision to be a kinship foster parent."When I was told that they were going to have to go to foster care because I couldn't find any other kinship carers, that's when I decided that I would take [Jaharn] into my care," she saysYoung Jaharn was accompanied by six closely aged relatives. Settling in and building a family took more than a decade, according to the woman who raised Jaharn as a single parent.Selina remembers that Jaharn's big lesson was "to let go of the parenting; that I was the adult"."I'm not abandoning you We know that it is a really hard road. "There is a way to make that easier for children and that is by ensuring they have connections to who they are, and they know there are people behind them who love them for who they are."Selina is proud of the young man Jaharn has become and is confident that he will be successful in whatever he wants to do in life."The proof is in the pudding and that's where you can see it in Jaharn ..