If a guy appears in my life naturally or has a similar hobby, he's already in one part of my world.When I'm asked about relationships, I feel like I'm being interrogated.I am tired of constantly defending being single and child-free.I have built a life for myself that is pretty full.I'm part of many different communities, which means I don't feel lonely.This year, I have a bunch of upcoming para powerlifting competitions across Australia I'm looking forward to honing my lifting and catching up with friends at comps.I also have writing sessions to look forward to — that's where I get to bond with like-minded people.Being single and child-free, I have a lot more flexibility and freedom to do what I like.I can choose to go to these writing days without thinking about who's going to look after the kids, what arrangements I need to make.Being single, I also have more autonomy