She is also a support to her dad.Cindy works full time at not-for-profit provider of in-home care, Care Connect, where she sees her own experiences play out for other culturally diverse Australians.Cindy says the hardest part is the guilt."You do everything you can for your parents, for your kids, but it never feels enough So I can spend time with my family when they are upSometimes I'm home late due to after-hours meetings, which means I don't get to have dinner with my family.The mental load of it all, that's where it's really hard.With mum and my kids, my role is managing their life