You're not allowed to play here" at training.Unsure who to turn to, she started messaging other parents asking for help and eventually was given the number of someone at the club who told her they would take the matter to the committee.Toni and her husband were told the kid would be watched at training, but after the aggressive behaviour continued she approached the child's father directly and says she was berated by him in front of the other parents."Like, really, really aggressive, really awful," she says.Toni and her partner sent an email to the club explaining what was happening and pleading for something to be done."And then nothing," Toni says.At a loss for help from the club, Toni wanted to make an official complaint and landed on the AFL Integrity portal, where she remembers filling out a form."It takes you a while to find it on the website when you don't know where to go, it's really, really hard They moved over to the MiniRoos, where they now play soccer in what she describes as a completely different environment.But Toni is still surprised by the handling of the incident and the lack of action from the AFL. "Surely it's part of your guidelines, especially with children involved, that if there's a serious incident that's physical and racial aspects, that it would be taken to a higher level so that they don't get in trouble," she says."I just felt really sad for my kids, because footy is a huge culture in Victoria, and so I feel like now that my kids are going to miss out on that because we don't feel safe."Toni says the AFL's integrity process is not transparent."There's no real structure